Friday, 3 October 2014

Am I not pretty enough... is my heart too broken?

LOW SELF ESTEEM

You think they judge you from head to toe when you walk past them.

You think you're not pretty enough...because you failed to keep him.
You think you're the worst friend in the world, because you let her drift away from you.

The list goes on... forever and ever...

But it's all just happening in your head


You know why..?

Because

They weren't judging you when you walked past them... not even the tiniest bit .
He didn't reject you because he thought you weren't good looking enough.
and your friend...she was never drifting away from you.

But why do you keep feeding your brain these lies, when you know clearly as a matter of fact... that these lies are solely the fruits harvested due to your negative mindset?

I always have the tendencies to over think..especially since we live in such a superficial world.

Insecurities and self consciousness.
I'm sure everyone knows how that feels, if only there was a way to stop all the negativity happening in our society.
But it's impossible to stop the people around you from being judgmental....it's almost as hard to stop yourself from being judgmental too.

Which is why...
Inner beauty is so important.
It's existence is what differentiates ourselves from the superficiality found everywhere in this world.

Hold your head up and smile

...because that's all that matters



You can become the substantive person in this not so perfect world:)
" The best part of beauty is that which no picture can express."
- P.C. Cast, Betrayed 

I feel beautiful, and so should you! 

Now scroll back up and read only the underlined bold sentences;)




Written with love. 
June ♥ 
Have an amazing day everyone:) You deserve it.. for being beautiful. Comment, if you have anything to say xx



97 comments:

  1. You know there are some teens who are doing all this weird and ugly stuff and then there are some who post such beautiful stuff...You miss are doing a great job!
    Keep it up! :)
    Neal Kind
    Daily Diaries

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    1. Haha! Your comment made me smile XD
      Thank you, you are doing an amazing job with your comics too! :D

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    2. Thanks....Everybody's gotta do something :) :P

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  2. I absolutely love this post. What a positive vibe! It reminds me of my own post, I'm doing some feel good posts too lately. You did a great job with this. Keep on writing!

    Have a great weekend
    Keep in touch
    xx
    isa | http://stoerensexy.blogspot.be

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    1. Thank you!:)
      Your comment motivates me so much <3
      I'll be sure to check out your wonderful posts!

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  3. Ah that feeling of walking past people and thinking that's they're judging you. I know that one very well. Your post is so beautiful and encouraging though. I couldn't help but smile when I read it. I think a smile is the most beautiful thing a person can wear. Everyone should smile more often, hold their heads up and be proud of who they are.

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    1. Yes, I agree! Everyone's beautiful when they smile :D
      Thank you Imogen... because your comment made me light up inside <3

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  4. Sorry to bother you again sweetie, but would you like to switch buttons? I also have a button(banner) on my blog. Let me know!

    Have a great weekend
    Keep in touch
    xx
    isa | http://stoerensexy.blogspot.be

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    1. Oh yes! I would love too, I'll do it as soon as I work out how to make a button's page:D
      Thank you so much, you are lovely <3

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  5. My sentiments exactly. It seems like these days, insecurities and feeling like "I'm not good enough" are really common and people fall into the trap of trying to change themselves for other people, of trying to be more perfect.

    Here's to loving yourself for who you are! :D #lovethispost

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    1. Yes... I totally agree with you Maine! <3
      Thank you so much, you don't know how much your comment means to me!:)

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    2. Thank you Jollygirl! <3<3 I'm so glad you liked it:)

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  6. This is a great post! It has inspired me not to care so much on my outside, but more on the inside. Thank you so much <3

    Ps. I love myself now, hehe

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    1. You're so welcome!
      I'm glad you love yourself :D

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  7. Inspiring post. Yes, sometimes, we all have thoughts. It is very nice to read something like this.. :)

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  8. Such a great blog!
    Would you like to follow each other via Bloglovin and gfc?

    www.modishyou.blogspot.com

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    1. Yup! Of course I'll follow you!:)
      Thank you so much ♥

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  9. Well written and very inspirational. Don't forget to tell yourself that ;)

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    1. I will Ryan, I will;)
      Thank you

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  10. Wow..passionate words! Lovely post..I have to say it really helped me feel better about myself!! Thanks heaps for sharing!! Lovely Blog, keep it up!!! http://walkingonsunshine.co.nr/

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    1. Thank you so much Riarna! :)
      I'm so so glad it made an impact on you <3

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  11. What an encouraging post! Sometimes we all need a reminder that we're beautiful, especially when the world trys to drag you down. :-) You're a great writer, keep up the great work!
    ~Katie@ liliesofgrace.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you so much, your comment means heaps to me!
      Yes, I totally agree with you, it is so important to keep reminding yourself that you are beautiful;)

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  12. I am with the girl of the firt comment,
    thank you visitng my blog, you a so beautiful to, I follow you

    Do the same !

    new post
    #G ♥

    http://www.instagram.com/g__miau

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    1. Thank you so much Georgia! ♥
      I've already followed you;)

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  13. Good message! Reminds me of a quote I like, "Don't worry about what people are thinking of you. They're not thinking of you; they're wondering what you are thinking about them!"

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    1. Yes! That's a wonderful quote!:)
      Thank you for sharing it with me:)

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  14. Great post Lovely words!!!!!
    Follow for follow?
    Love, Paola.
    Expressyourself
    My Facebook

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    1. Thank you so much:)
      Of course I'll follow you ♥

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  15. It's so nice to see such supportive words. You never know who's going to need to hear them, and it's great you put them out there anyway. :)

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  16. Aw June. You're like the dream teen column in a teen magazine. Thanks for the relatable post. "The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude about the problem" - Captain Jack Sparrow.
    Thanks for having the most positive blog out there!! xx

    -M
    The Life of Little Me

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    1. Haha M :')
      That's a wonderful quote.. thank you for sharing! <3
      I should be thanking you for being such a supportive friend:)

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  17. Inspirational post <3 I loved reading this. :) xx

    Sammie
    sammiethestargirl.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you Sammie! Your comment means so much to me ♥

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  18. I love your posotive attitude! And you made me smile too! Wondering could we follow each other ? Let me know!:)

    xx Sonja
    www.passionhere.blogspot.fi !

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    1. Thank you:) I would love to follow you!

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  19. Awh, I love this so much! And it's sooo true!! We should all just stop trying to be who society wants us to be and accept us for ourselves, but it's a lot easier said than done :/

    Amy~

    awkwarddonkey.blogspot.co.uk

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    1. I totally agree... yes...unfortunately it's not as easy as it might seem.
      Thank you for such a meaningful comment!:)

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  20. Great post. Love it. Would you like to follow each other on GFC?! Let me know and follow me on my blog, I will follow you right back on both GFC and Bloglovin!
    xx
    Annie
    www.the-lostangeles.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you Annie! <3
      I've followed you already:)

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  21. beautiful post :)


    spiceadvicexo.blogspot.com

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  22. A very inspirational post. Thanks for sharing :)
    I am following you back!

    http://everythingthatclicks.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you so much for the follow, means so much to me!:)
      I'm so glad you like it, you're so welcome <3

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  23. love self-esteem is very common issue! thanks for writing this post I think can help a lot of people!

    Lyosha
    Inside and Outside Blog

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    1. Yes, unfortunately it is..
      Haha wonderful if it could!:)
      Thank you for your lovely comment! <3

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    1. Yes, i totally agree:)
      Thank you!

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  25. Nice text, lot of smart things is there :)
    Maybe we could follow each other ?:)
    Overpowered

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    1. Thank you Maja!:)
      Of course we can follow each other <3
      I'm visiting your blog right away..

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    2. Thank you a lot. I followed you too <3

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  26. Aw this is so sweet! It reminded me of a song - Try by Colbie Calliat :)

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    1. I'm in love with the song Laura!! <3
      Thank you so much for your comment;)

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  27. This is such a wonderful post. :)

    ~ Mint

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  28. you know what, I have low esteem too
    but am trying my best to love and appreciate
    myself more.
    you should too.
    :)


    Ms. Kei


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    P.S.
    i am now following your blog
    through GFC & Bloglovin'.

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    1. Thank you so much for your encouraging words..:)))
      I'm following your blog too <3

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  29. This is beautiful<3

    thanks for the lovely comment on my blog and for the follow. love your blog and I'm looking forward to reading more.
    God bless you!

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    1. Anytime!♥ You have such an inspiring blog:)
      Thank you!

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  30. This is such a sweet post, June! <333 So, so true!

    And then there's me... I came to ask you whether you wanted to do the Make-Up tag I did... but now I'm ashamed...

    Loved your post though! x it made my day! :)

    Yasmine | Cloudy Dreams

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    1. Oh no Yasmine don't be haha!
      Wearing makeup doesn't really have much to do with this:) Everything's fine, as long as you have confidence in yourself:)
      I would love to do the make up tag.. except I don't have enough experience with makeup...
      Thank you! You'r comment made my day as well xx

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  31. Love this post!

    http://bellemelange.net/blog/

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  32. I totally agree and can relate to this. it's so hard to get caught up in the superficial and wallow in self pity or insecurity that is why it is always good to take a breather and surround yourself with loving and positive people who will help you see the beauty inside you. everyone is beautiful in their own ways and a good heart is way more valuable than a pretty face.

    http://www.pinkoolaid.com/

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    1. I totally agree with you!:))
      Thank you for such a meaningful comment <3

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  33. I like this, its 100% true. We always judge ourselves subconsciously.

    Daisy l LittleKawaiiDaisy


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    1. Yes.. we always tend to judge ourselves so much harsher than anyone else around us.
      Thank you so much Daisy! <3

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  34. true and beautiful post :)


    www.dicexcvi.com

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    1. Not as beautiful as the peom you've just written!:)
      Thank you <3

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  35. I enjoyed reading this post. Thanks for sharing.

    http://ninasstyleblog.blogspot.com

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    1. You're so welcome!:)
      I'm so glad you enjoyed it thank you! <3

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  36. I'm following you back now, darling..... keep in touch!!!
    Expressyourself

    My Facebook

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    1. Thank you so much! Your follow means so much to me.❤

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  37. This is beautiful<3
    -Lauren xoxo
    pretty-things-a-n-d-polka-dots.blogspot.co.uk

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  38. Hi June, thank you for dropping by my blog a while back. I love seeing newcomers around. You're from Singapore? High 5! I get 90% international blog readers and friends on my blog that it is refreshing to see a fellow Singaporean's comment. The locals usually just read silently.

    You're only 15? You write beautifully and with with such maturity. I like the positive vibes radiating from this post. Most teens definitely feel all the insecurities you described here, even adults too. And I'm glad that you are able to see the deeper side of this. Continue this positive mindset of yours and your life would be beautiful!

    Following you via GFC now. Would love to keep in touch with you and hope to see you around more often!

    Jo
    Jo's Jumbled Jardinière

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    1. I can't believe I didn't realise this earlier on!!:)
      Hahaha yes.. I hardly get any comments from people living in singapore too,
      Thank you so much! You are such a lovely person! <3
      I would love to keep in touch with you, I followed your beautiful blog too<3

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  39. Nice Blog! Would you like to follow each other?
    Check out my blog and facebook page:
    www.wajihaslifediary.blogspot.com
    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=337766586400230&fref=ts

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    1. Thank you so much!:)
      I would love to follow you:) I'm heading off to your blog now!

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  40. Nice post

    New post in
    Www.miharujulie.com

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  41. That's such a positive message!
    Everyone's beautiful :D You're pretty and so sweet :)
    xx, Veni

    Style with Veni | Fashion Blog

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    1. Aww.. thank you!:)
      I believe you're even prettier and sweeter <3

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  42. WOW - I was just browsing through & stumbled upon your lovely blog - It looks gorgeous and it has interesting posts that I can relate to. I'm now following you via gfc, Hope you check out my blog? keep in touch love x

    Benish | Feminist Reflections

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    1. Thank you:))
      I'm so glad you can relate to them.. of course, I'll check out your blog right now!:D

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  43. Truly inspirational! <3
    And i totally LOVE the way you frame your blog :D

    P.S.
    I am new to blogging.
    I could use your support. :)

    http://this-is-it-sg.blogspot.in

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    1. Haha thank you so much!:)
      Of course I'll support you.. you have a pretty name btw <3

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  45. Well written and its true actually....
    We all are living in this superficial world, living our life but according to others...
    We all should stop living as per others, without bothering anyone....
    We should live more with our hearts and less with our brain......it will make wonders!

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    1. Yes! This is such a beautiful comment... thank you so so much. <3

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