Sunday, 15 February 2015

Sometimes... can we just run away?- I've got a war in my mind

We all make hundreds of decisions ever day...
 from the moment we get out of bed, to the moment we lower our eyelids into slumber.



Making hard decisions is like figuring out how to walk out of a labyrinth.
It hurts your brain...but once you get it right, you're good.




I'm not a good decision maker.. I tend to act on emotional responses, and they usually lead to bad consequences. That usually happens when I'm too tired or in a state when I'm not thinking rationally. 


Poor judgement causes bad decisions. 
And we all know bad decisions can change your life forever. Okay, it might not be physically, but emotional scars are hard to heal. 


“Trust your instincts, and make judgements on what your heart tells you. The heart will not betray you.” 
― David Gemmell, Fall of Kings

People can betray..but the heart will never. 



I hate making difficult decisions... but that's just a part of life, isn't it?


I hope all of you enjoyed your valentines day! 
Have a beautiful day, make good decisions.
Written with Love,
June


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29 comments:

  1. Tshi115 February 2015 at 19:06

    I am the worst at making decisions because no matter what I choose I regret not making the other decision. Decisions shape us as human's and it may seem like making the wrong decision might alter your life forever but making the right one could also brighten your future which ends up putting all this pressure on you but ultimately it's not the large decisions that shape us as human's but all the little decisions we make on our path on our journey to the big decision xx

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    1. J26 February 2015 at 20:33

      Well said :)) I agree with every word. One bad decision doesn't mean the end, it is the many little decisions that make up the most.:)

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  2. elisabeth16 February 2015 at 00:45

    "The hardest thing in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn."
    Can I just say that this is so so true. And your words are so on point. Lovely post xx.

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  3. Lizzie Cole16 February 2015 at 01:56

    I hate making decisions but they do make us who we are!

    Lizzie Dripping

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    1. J26 February 2015 at 20:38

      You're right! I guess making decisions is just an inevitable part of life..

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  4. Ella16 February 2015 at 03:00

    I have so many feeling up inside my head, but I try not to act on most of them. Unfortunately, that means they usually build up inside me. It's helpful to keep a journal for that.

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    1. J26 February 2015 at 20:42

      That's true Ella:) Writing helps a lot when you're feeling down xx

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  5. Ayla16 February 2015 at 09:04

    Decisions are probably the hardest thing you will have to make in your life. But then again,our lives depend on them, so it has to be this way.

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    1. J26 February 2015 at 20:43

      I agree... decisions are hard, but they can be good:)

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  6. Abigail Lennah16 February 2015 at 10:03

    Decisions are hard. I'm a lot like you, making decisions depending on how I feel. that's the reason why it's hard when people elect me to be a group leader for projects; I'm pretty laid back and make sure people are on task, but when I get frustrated, I end up just making irrational decisions. We have to think through sometimes past our emotions. And just because our emotions get in the way of our judgements sometimes doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad thing.

    xoxo Morning

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    1. J26 February 2015 at 23:40

      I get you! My emotions always end up getting in the way when I'm trying to figure out something important. But you're right.. it's not necessarily a bad thing:)

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  7. Anonymous17 February 2015 at 01:16

    I'm really bad at making decisions as well. I love this post, it really got me thinking a lot more. :)

    -Cassie ^.^

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  8. Jenny Jiang17 February 2015 at 12:09

    I'm always so indecisive. It's hard to make a decision for me because I don't even know which path is the right one.

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    1. J26 February 2015 at 23:42

      Same for me.. I just can't tell what will happen in the future. I guess that's just what life is, unpredictable :/

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  9. M19 February 2015 at 18:29

    June!! How have I managed to miss two of your posts!? We really do have to make so many decisions, important or not. Everything we do is a decision made. I think you should just go with the motto "no regrets" even though we have them, what has been done has been done. Keep moving forward. What will your next decision be? Where or what do you want next?

    -M
    The Life of Little Me

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    1. M21 February 2015 at 20:41

      Oh and Juney, I've also nominated you for the Best Blogging Buddies award! Here's the link: http://thelyfoflittleme.blogspot.com.au/2015/02/a-bundle-of-questions-answers-and-facts.html

      -M
      The Life of Little Me

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    2. J26 February 2015 at 23:45

      Omg M! I should be the one apologizing for missing your posts! The motto " no regrets" is pretty motivational:)
      Thank you for the great advice my buddy <3<3 oh and I'll check out the nomination:D

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  10. Lydia20 February 2015 at 07:17

    Hey, I nominated you for the You Are Amazing and So Is Your Blog Award :)

    http://thefashioncheetah.blogspot.ca/2015/02/tags.html

    ~Lydia~

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    1. J26 February 2015 at 23:53

      Thank you so much for the nomination Lydia! I'll check it out now:))

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  11. AddyLovesWolves21 February 2015 at 04:15

    I nominated you for the best blogging buddies award! http://arebel4everafter.blogspot.com/

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  12. Euge Etcheverry25 February 2015 at 01:13

    I hate making decisions, it's very hard for me, but it's part of life. We make our own path.
    Obsessed Fashion Blog

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    1. J26 February 2015 at 23:57

      You're so right.. it's an inevitable part of life. We live our own life, we make our own choices :)
      Thank you xxx

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  13. J26 February 2015 at 23:43

    Thank you! I'll drop by your blog <3

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  14. a silly girl28 February 2015 at 23:20

    I once asked one of my friends what he thought it meant to be an adult, and he said: "When you can make decisions without panicking." I think he's right. I still panick.
    Great post (:

    - Love, Felicia
    ( http://asillygirlsthoughts.weebly.com/ )

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  15. Unknown25 April 2015 at 01:02

    Love all the wise words in this post! Just don't be afraid of making mistakes and if you do, learn from them. Keep doing what you're doing :)

    Diego
    www.diegohernndz.blogspot.com

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  16. booksballetphotos30 May 2015 at 19:33

    Wow, you put so much effort into your posts, thats amazing! Definitely following!

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